This is the death certificate of Gilbert Tingom. He was born March 12, 1845 and Died on January 25, 1926.
Photo of Gilbert Tingom with family: Gilbert Tingom is visible on the right hand side of this photograph.
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Gilbert Tingom
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Members of Eli Johnson Family Fought in 3 Wars
From a very old newspaper photo-copy.
Capital Times, Madison, WI, December 9th, 1960.
Parents, 12 Children Lived on Farm Near McFarland
Members of Eli Johnson Family Fought in 3 Wars
By C. H. Sanderson
The McFarland Area has been the home of several prominent people. The list includes a supreme court judge, a University president, college and university professors and the like. Some interesting and colorful families also lived in the vicinity. Most of these families were of Norwegian descent. A typical family group in this category in the 1900 era was that of Eli and Martha Johnson, whose farm home was just 1 ½ miles south of the village. There were 12 children.
Johnson came into possession of the main part of the farm in the late 1860s, according to Dan County records. Later he acquired the small farm of his brother, Isaac. This was and still is a beautiful tract situated on the banks of the Yahara River. The gently rolling terrain sloping back from the river is one of the many terminal moraines in the area, all running north and south, a reminder of the glaciers in their relatively recent visit to Southern Wisconsin some 10,000 years ago.
Isaac must have moved West, because the records show that one Aaron Johnson, presumably his son, and a cousin of the Eli Johnson sons and daughters, came back from South Dakota to the University of Wisconsin to become an outstanding athlete and one of the early graduates of the college of agriculture.
Because the Eli Johnson family was a large one – the men of the family including the father and six sons-the military experiences and contributions were extensive and not without tragic consequences. Their military activity spanned three major wars.
The father, Eli, enlisted for service in the Civil War Sept. 19, 1861, when he was 18, and became a private in the Company E., Eight Infantry. He was discharged the following July 5 after he became disabled. No details are available.
Oscar, the oldest son, enlisted May 13, 1898, just 19 days after Spain had declared war against the U.S. over the trouble in Cuba. He was a private in Company C, (Wisconsin) 8th Infantry, First Regiment. At the close of the short-lived war, sometime between the armistice, Aug. 21, and the Treaty of Paris, Dec. 12, of the same year, he was discharged.
When he returned home he became a well-driller, a profitable business in those days. Later he acquired the old home farm from the other heirs. Title is still in the names of his two widowed daughters-in-law, Mrs. Elliot Johnson, Madison, and Mrs. Marvin Johnson, Milwaukee, although there have been two or three transfers of propriety interest by virtue of a land contract. The present occupant, a tenant, operates the farm.
Martin also enlisted and served in the Spanish-American war. After discharge he returned home and lived the life of a near hermit and did not marry. What with his government pension and small cash crops, Spartan self denial and shrewd investments he was found at the time of his death to have accumulated a sizable estate. Since he had never made a will the estate was divided among his surviving relatives. He died in 1951 at the age of 75.
Andrew, third youngest of the boys, and a plague to small fry when he was an older boy in the grades, with his lively and sometimes aggressive pranks, was killed in action Oct. 24, 1900 near Luzon in the Philippines. He was a member of the Troop L Third Cavalry, or the U.S. occupying forces against whom one Emilio Aguinaldo was in rebellion until he was captured by the U.S. Gen. Frederick Funston.
Those who attended Andrew’s re-interment in the family lot in the McFarland Cemetery, a long time after the trouble in the islands was over… [text went off page photocopy]
Elmer, the youngest of the family, was a corporal in the U.S. Marines, the family contribution to Wold War I. For many years after the war he lived at317 W. Lakeside St. In Madison, where his widow still lives. He died at 69 last July.
There are no military records for Oliver or Alfred. Oliver was one of the older sons. He was married to Belle Olson, the village seamstress, and they operated a small farm near (now in) the village, together with the other land near the old farm home. In their later years they became deeply religious; and, having no children, bequeathed their property to the McFarland Lutheran Church. That part of the village has recently sold to the Alvin Mitchell and wife by Knute Vinjhe who had acquired it from the church.
Alfred married and had one son. Later in life he lived along in the dwelling on the old Isaac Johnson place. Around 1902 he played in the outfield in Ted Edwards’ famous Waubesa Baseball Team.
Stella was the oldest Daughter of the Eli Johnson’s. She and her husband, Jake Nelson, lived for many years on the farm with the faded red brick house across from what is now Dvorak’s Tavern. This couple in their later years became enthusiastic followers of Alexander Dowie, then in his prime as a religious leader, and the founder of Zion City, Ill. In 1904 they sold the farm and moved with their children to the Dowie Headquarters in Zion City, where some of the children still make their home.
Four of the other daughters moved West and settled in California, near and in Pasadena. These were Mrs. Marian Fullmer, Mrs. Irene King, Mrs. Edythe Hansen, and Emma who never married. Helen remained in the home area and became the wife of Peter Tingom. The Tingoms had two sons and lived at 1237 E. Johnson St., in Madison, where Mr. Tingom, a retired Gisholt employe[e], still lives. Helen died three years ago. Of the entire Johnson family only Marian and Edythe survive.
Eli Johnson was what would be called today a rugged individualist. He was a man of positive and emphatic ideas, habits, and temper. He was a strong man physically. He used neither tobacco nor alcohol. His aversion against tobacco was so positive that not a stalk of the plant was raised on the home farm during his lifetime although in those days it was a highly profitable cash crop. He died in1901, at the age of 58. His wife Martha… [end of page].
Update:
I discovered this resource today, about the Johnson family: https://johnjohnsonfamilyhistory.blogspot.com/2015/03/children-of-engebret-and-helene-johnson.html?fbclid=IwAR17aDh4V0yLO6GweVY9M9w8B535OMtf4YO9x0STrIa7spCIsa4hw9NwGRk
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Barbara Ann Tingom
Comments archived from online obituary guestbook.
Barb was a special friend, the kind who you could not see for years and just catch right up with and enjoy being together. I’ll never forget our “pretend shopping” at the Art Show and sale, the last time we were together. We met through homeschooling in St. Louis, but she became a lifetime friend.
Love and prayers for all the family as you miss Barb. Thank you, LORD, that we’ll all be together in heaven one day, where Barb is now walking with Jesus and no longer in pain.
~ Carol Hammer, Manchester (St. Louis), Missouri, December 09, 2012
Barbara was a lovely lady with a gift of hospitality and many contributions in the service of others. Above all she was a sister in the Lord Jesus Christ. Deborah and I regret we were out of town and unable to attend the memorial service, but are happy to have this opportunity to join others who will miss her very much. “Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord from henceforth: Yea, saith the Spirit, that they may rest from their labours; and their works do follow them” (Rev.14:13).
Carl and Deborah Bogue
~ Carl Bogue, Scottsdale, Arizona, December 09, 2012
Dearest George,
Our prayers continue at this time of great loss. Barbara will always have an imprint on my life, she was a wonderful example of how a mother’s love is. I will miss her dearly, her memories that we have shared will never be forgotten. This is but a short time and soon we all shall be reunited in Glory.
The eternal God is your refuge, And underneath are the everlasting arms… (Deuteronomy 33:27)
~ Lynne Bsbcock, Phoenix, Arizona, December 07, 2012
Barb was my mentor and a key reason I homeschool… She spent hours with me, guiding me, praying with me and going over curriculum. I now have 2 children that have graduated highschool and they were homeschooled the whole way, thanks to Barb’s encouragement and guiding when I was first starting out. I am still homeschooling my youngest. I feel that I am a small part of the God honoring legacy that Barb leaves behind her. I am heart broken for her family and heart broken that I had lost contact with her over the years.. I am so happy she is rejoicing in heaven, even as I am crying for our loss. I love you Barb and so thankful you played such an influential role in our lives. George, my prayers are with you and the rest of the family.
~ Lynne Sciury, Surprise, Arizona, December 07, 2012
Dear George,
We stand with you in prayer at the passing of Barbara. We praise God that she is safe and whole in His presence and pray you find comfort in that knowledge. From all of us at the Disciple Nations Alliance.
~ Scott and Kim Allen, Phoenix, Arizona, December 07, 2012
George and family –
What a blessed knowledge to know that Barbara is celebrating this Christmas at the feet of Christ in Heaven. May God touch all of you with His peace and comfort at this time.
In Christ –
~ Moira McSpadden, Fort Wayne, Indiana, December 07, 2012
I am praying for you all in the pain of this loss. Barb was a true light for Christ, an example of love and hospitality, with a heart for God. I am happy to know that she is with the Lord, rejoicing at this moment, but the pain down here for the rest of us is very real. Praying that God would comfort your hearts and fill you with His peace and strength each day.
Love in Christ,
Marie
~ Marie Blanchard, Madrid, Spain, December 07, 2012
George,may the Lord comfort and strengthen you and grant you His tender mercies, new each morning. May the Lord give you patience as you live the rest of your days waiting to join her in your heavenly inheritance in Christ Jesus. We send our love and prayers.
~ Henry & Dawn Doorn, Escondido, California, December 06, 2012
Barb was such a joy and inspiration to us all. I have fond memories of those early homeschool days. Thank you Tingoms for your work of love. George, I am so sorry for your loss, but rejoicing that Barb is now with Jesus.
~ Colene Lewis, Gilbert, Arizona, December 06, 2012
Dear George,
How blessed you are to have such wonderful memories of your dear Barbara. She leaves a wonderful legacy to be remembered and treasured by her family… her life truly set an example to be followed!
May you and the children be comforted by thoughts of all the good times you shared and the knowledge of the joy she now knows.
Love,
Phoebe and Bob
~ Bob and Phoebe Lambeth, Orange, California, December 06, 2012
Barbara was a servant of God who loved mission work. With her husband, George, they were great encouragers of each missionary at Harvest Foundation and we’ll miss her sweet presence, until we meet again with Jesus.
~ Cleiton and Elly Oliveira, Phoenix, Arizona, December 06, 2012
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Barb was such an amazing and warm person and will be greatly missed! It was great seeing some of you the other day at my recital.. Thanks for your support and friendship over the years. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time! God Bless!
~ Josh Hillmann, Tempe, Arizona, December 06, 2012
Barbara was the most graceful woman with an infectious smile even when racing against her on the water! She had a gift of making everyone feel welcomed and loved. She was selfless, not only was she a good listener but she heard everything one said. She was and will always be an inspiration to us,
as a woman, as a wife, and as sailor!
We Love You Barbara And You Will Never Be Forgotten.
Much Love,
Christina and Steve Campo
~ Christina Campo, Scottsdale, Arizona, December 06, 2012
We rejoice with George and family that Barb is free from the struggles and pain of this world and present with her Lord and King, Jesus.
~ Bob and Judy Moffitt, Phoenix, Arizona, December 06, 2012
Barb always had a smile on her face, even when facing trials. She will be missed by many.
~ Allyson and Greg Janos, Peachtree City, Georgia, December 06, 2012
I am thinking of sitting in our grandmother’s back stair to the kitchen behind the closed door and listening in on the adult talk in the kitchen~ and giggling. Giggling goes with times with Barbie. And catching fireflies on grandma’s lawn or exploring the “woods” next to grandpa’s garden together~ all in our Pennsylvania childhood. I am thinking of swimming in your pools in Arizona with my family. Of Brook’s magazine, Kindred Spirits, and how proud Barbie is of her daughter. Of Chris’ web work and how proud Barbie is of him. Of the grandchildren that are such a blessing to her and whose presence opened the world of smocking for her.I will miss her, but she is in my heart forever. Hugs and kisses to each of you.
Ginny
~ Ginny Heitz, Calistoga, California, December 05, 2012
Barbara taught our girls all the skills they needed for babysitting when Brooke and Chris were babies. She was a sweet, gentle lady and was loved dearly by our children. Barbara always had a smile for everyone. She was an angel on earth.
~ Faith Kopp, Sun Lakes, Arizona, December 05, 2012
We all love Barb and George. Barb will be deeply missed. She was such a sweet sweet lady.
~ Melanie Bristol, Gilbert, Arizona, December 05, 2012
I have fond memories of Barb home schooling back in Missouri. She will be missed. Praying for comfort, peace and strength for the family in the days ahead as you adjust to life without her. I’m so sorry for your loss, but we will see her again some day! Blessings to the family.
~ Martha Hillmann, New Melle, Missouri, December 05, 2012
Barbra was a gentle soul,she had a smile that would bring warmth to your heart. I met Barbra on the water, she loved to sail. She inspired me to skipper my own boat. George and Barbra had a true kind of love, that was felt by family and friends. I pray that you are at peace and flying with that angels. God Bless ~ Rick, Lisa and Ryan Lake
~ Lisa Lake, Gilbert, Arizona, December 05, 2012
Barb was such a sweet person. We got to know her and George when our eldest son was dying of cancer. They opened their hearts and their home to us for which we will be eternally grateful. While we stayed with them they made sure we had every creature comfort available to us–and treated us like family–we are because we have Christ as our brother. She and my son Greg are now walking the streets of gold and are no longer in any pain! Praise be to God!!
~ Larry Wallace, Moweaqua, Illinois, December 05, 2012
Thanking God for her life and praying for George and the family. May the God of all comfort give you comfort. -Tom and Barbara Zimmerman, December 05, 2012
A very special lady indeed and a joy to be around and sail with. She will be missed.
~ Shari Clark, Sun City, Arizona, December 05, 2012
“For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus” (1 Thess. 4:14). May the comfort of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit be with you all, and know we love you.
~ Michael Babcock, Phoenix, Arizona, December 05, 2012
Barb was one of the first people I met at Calvin OPC. She made me feel welcome and invited me over for a Thanksgiving dinner.
I will miss her !
~ Nicholas Voss, Phoenix, Arizona, December 05, 2012
Barb was a dear lady. I miss her. I am grateful for the hope of eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord.
~ Marijo Taverne, Hoodsport, Washington, December 05, 2012
I feel much sorrow at the loss to your family. Barb was a great encouragement when I started homeschooling. I have prayed as I viewed Chris’s posts on Facebook, and am praying for comfort and peace for your family.
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Obituary for Barbara Ann McIlvaine Tingom
March 30, 1949 – November 30, 2012Barbara Ann McIlvaine Tingom was born in Abington, Pennsylvania, a suburb of Philadelphia, on March 30th, 1949. She was born a preemie and not expected to survive. She was the first of two children, and had a younger brother named Alan. Both she and her brother were named after their parents.
As a child, she played with Mary Hoyer dolls and later sailed with her dad. In high school she played field hockey, and graduated from Wissahickon High School in 1967.
During her teens and into college she would spend summers at the beach in Ocean City, New Jersey where it was cooler. Barbara would stay with her grandparents at their summer home. Her Aunt Gladys lived across the street on the beach. Her mother and aunt taught her to sew during those summers.
She learned to sail on the ocean with her dad, brother Alan, and cousin Tommy at the Ocean City Yacht Club. She sailed on Moth and Comet sailboats and participated in racing events.
During the summer months, Barbara also worked at a candy shop on the Boardwalk selling salt-water taffy.
Barbara went on to attend Susquehanna University in Selins Grove, Pennsylvania. At Susquehanna she played left fullback on the women’s field hockey team.
When Barbara’s parents moved to Scottsdale in the early 1970s, she decided to visit. She immediately fell in love with the palm trees and warm winter-temperatures of Arizona. Barbara moved to Arizona before her 25th birthday and bought a small patio home in Scottsdale.
During those years, Barbara worked processing insurance claims. She often shared stories about how she could process twice as many claims as her coworkers by processing the newest claims first.
Then, she met a guy named George with a small sailboat who liked to sail for fun. She challenged him, saying, “You do not know how to sail if you don’t know how to race.” This was the beginning of nearly 40 years together, and a family sport of sailboat racing.
George and Barbara were married on April 19th, 1976. They were married at St. Luke’s Hospital Chapel in Phoenix and honeymooned in Mazatlan, Mexico.
Growing up, Barbara attended a liberal church in Pennsylvania, and not liking the denomination George had been with since his childhood, they set out as a married couple to find a new church home. They soon found a church in Scottsdale that they attended. It was within walking distance of their home. Barbara always felt that it was there that she became a Christian.
A few years later, Brook was born in May of 1978, and Christopher was born in February of 1980.
Being a mother was the most important part of life to Barbara, along with her marriage to George. Teaching and educating her two children was a major extension of mothering and something she loved.
In the mid 1980s Barbara founded a support group in Phoenix for homeschoolers called Eastside Explorers, which is still active today. She was also involved with the state home schooling group called AFHE, the Arizona Families for Home Education, and was president for a year.
In June of 1990 the family moved to St. Louis, Missouri, when George accepted a new job. Then, in 1995 the family moved back to Scottsdale. While in St. Louis she learned and practiced home decorating as a hobby.
Barbara encouraged Chris in his pursuit of the Eagle Scout award, which he earned in 1994.
Barbara encouraged Brook to stay in touch with friends, which developed into a magazine for girls called “Kindred Spirits.” Through this magazine Brook met her future husband, Israel; married in 1999 and now have seven children and live in Michigan.
Chris and Jana married in 2010; they have one child and live in Scottsdale.
About 10 years ago, the Tingom family joined Calvin Orthodox Presbyterian Church in Phoenix. George and Barbara say it was one of the best decisions they have ever made. Barbara enjoyed teaching 3rd and 4th grade Sunday School for a number of years.
In recent years Barbara developed a passion for smocking and sewing. She made dozens of heirloom dresses and outfits for her grandchildren. She was president of the Desert Rows Smocking Guild for a year. She developed and fostered many friendships through her smocking.
An important character trait to Barb was honesty. She held herself to a high standard and looked for the same in others.
Barb loved to travel. In the early ‘70s she visited Europe for the first time, and saw England, Spain, Luxemburg, Austria, Switzerland, Germany, and the Netherlands. In the 1980s Barb and George travelled to Hawaii, Bermuda, and many sailing trips to Catalina Island. In recent years, she and George have travelled to Maine, France and Ireland. They have taken Chris with them on trips to Italy, Brazil, Norway, Sweden, England, Vancouver, and Alaska. Barb managed to visit 49 to 50 states (she couldn’t recall visiting Alabama).
In recent years, Barb researched and improved her health considerably, but in March on her 63rd birthday she was diagnosed with bladder and bone cancer. Despite every effort to combat the disease, she succumbed on November 30, 2012 surrounded by her family. She is now at home with her Savior in Heaven, Jesus Christ.
Barbara leaves behind her husband, George, and their two children Brook and Chris, and son-in-law Israel, and daughter-in-law Jana, along with eight grandchildren ages 1 to 12. Her grandchildren are: Benjamin, Cherish, Isaac, Josiah, Eden, Caleb and Charity in Michigan, and Emily in Arizona.
George and Barbara were happily married for 36 years. One of their favorite activities was to sit on the patio, drink a glass of wine, and watch the sunset together. They shared a toast, borrowed from poet Robert Browning: “Come grow old with me, the best is yet to be.”
Before her death, Barbara shared some of her favorite Bible verses. Two of them are: James 1:2-5, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” And another is Colossians 3:1-4, “If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory.”
